Love is this crazy thing in life, you know? So, there's this friend of mine, and she's caught up in this really complicated relationship. The twist? The guy she's into is already married – yup, she's the other woman.

Now, I'm not directly in the middle of this mess, but it's like I'm on the sidelines, aware of all the drama. Dealing with this kind of real-life soap opera is no joke. As her friend, it's a struggle because, on one hand, I want her to be happy, but on the other, I can't fully support her being in this affair

It's tough not to cheer her on when she's happy, you know? I genuinely want her to have that joy. But, I've got this internal conflict because, let's face it, the whole affair thing isn't exactly a moral high ground. Balancing being happy for her and sticking to some kind of moral compass? That's the real challenge.

I'm there for her, you know? A constant reminder that she can find happiness, but it's important to understand her boundaries. I've emphasized to her that I don't want her to be the reason for breaking up a family. All this happiness she's experiencing might not last in the long run because, at the end of the day, the guy will likely go back to where he truly belongs – with his real family.

She's well aware of how devastating a broken family can be because she's been through it herself. Unfortunately, her own failed marriage resulted from her husband's infidelity. It just doesn't add up to me that she would want to be the reason for another family falling apart because she knows how it feels like.

It's hard to pass judgment on them. Sometimes, distance from family or the pain people go through can drive them to make questionable choices. While it's not a valid excuse, that's just the way life is

Take my other best friend, for instance. She's been in a long-term relationship, but even now, the guy isn't sure about settling down with her. It's genuinely disheartening to see her in this position. She deserves better because she's an incredible person and means a lot to me. All I wish for her is a pure love that chooses and prioritizes her. Yet, somehow, she always finds herself entangled with the wrong person.

Honestly, I find joy in being single. While having someone for support is undeniably wonderful, I personally don't envision myself in that role right now. I'm dealing with various personal and financial issues, and I don't think I'm ready for a commitment like that at the moment.

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