Setting goals can indeed be quite intimidating because we're uncertain about the outcomes. It can be draining and fill us with anxiety when striving to achieve these dreams or whatever we choose to call them.

One valuable lesson I've picked up from various blogs and self-help books is that we can be dreamers and goal-getters without overwhelming ourselves. We can enhance our productivity without getting stuck in a constant loop of thinking about life and these so-called goals. The process of life often leaves us feeling vulnerable as we fixate on the end result, which, in the end, may not be worth it.

Here are a few things I've learned: Achieving our dreams doesn't have to be a constant struggle, as long as we remain aware of the present moment in our lives. Worrying about the future doesn't make a significant difference in the ultimate outcome, but it can make our lives miserable and prevent us from truly enjoying life.

As Dale Carnegie wisely said, "Life is too short to be little."

When faced with tough decisions, we should do what we can and, if we can't, let go and move forward, calmly considering the next step. No one can predict the future, so there's no use in stressing out.

Life doesn't always go smoothly; it's meant to be challenging, so be prepared.

Remember, the end goal isn't the sole reason we strive every day. We need to find joy even when things get tough. It won't always end in happiness; there may be disappointments, but we must accept and anticipate that these things will happen. Let's allow ourselves to enjoy even the moments of struggle.

I understand it's not easy; I've found myself in the darkest depths of my being too. I've had to reassess my values and my definition of happiness. I've discovered that staying grounded and maintaining a strong faith really helps me keep my sanity intact. Meditation and clearing my mind have been effective ways to stop myself from worrying and constantly reminding myself that my mind is in control, not my emotions.

It might sound cliché, but talking to myself and calming my trust in my faith has been a source of strength.

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