What a week, seriously! Vans swung by, crashed at my place, and even brought me a fighting fish as a gift. It totally brightened my day, especially since she knows I'm usually rolling solo. She's got this concern that I adopted a house spider as a pet previously—hilarious!

Now, on a more real note, she's going through a ton with her relationship, and it's turning into a hot mess. She made a quick move that could put her in a tight spot. When she spilled the whole story, tears and all, I couldn't help but remind her that maybe this relationship wasn't the best idea. I supported her because it made her happy, but I also warned her about the potential fallout. Sadly, she went ahead with it, and now she's facing the consequences.

The tiny silver lining, if you can call it that, is that she's finally clued in that this won't end well. Plus, it's kinda good that all the effort and emotion she poured into this wasn't reciprocated by the guy. Honestly, I'm relieved about that—I never wanted her stuck in a deep relationship that I knew wasn't right for her.

One thing that really got to me was when she brought the guy's family into the whole mess. She knows firsthand the pain of having a broken family, the struggles, and the consequences that come with it. Yet, in the heat of the moment, she went ahead, not even considering the impact on the child involved. I can't entirely blame her, but that's the reality of it. Both of them share the responsibility for this chaos. I genuinely hope she finds someone who will love her the way she deserves.

Before Vans headed back to the resort, we had a picnic at the artificial beach. It's good to see that she's in a better state now. The next day, she shrugged off the hot mess they created and accepted the reality, acknowledging that things got a bit messier. Despite that, she's in a better place and even managed to reconcile with the guy, agreeing to help him stay in the Maldives. I initially thought she might hold some resentment, but I'm genuinely pleased with how Vans handled everything and emerged as a good person through it all

It's puzzling why people willingly put themselves in complicated situations, enduring all this agony. To me, it doesn't seem worth it. I'm just thankful that I don't have any interest in diving into a relationship right now—talk about dodging a bullet! LOL

Looking back at my week, I can say it was quite productive in terms of studying. Although I have this tendency to jump between different topics and struggle to finish one in a single sitting, I managed to accomplish what I set out to do. The challenge, though, is my bad habit of getting easily distracted. I find myself scattered all over the place, making my studying routine more challenging and causing a bit of anxiety.

But that's how it goes, isn't it? I just have to do what needs to be done. I'm genuinely putting in effort to absorb as much as I can and keeping my fingers crossed to pass the exam.

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