Sunday, June 28, 2015
Uncle for Hougang and their Lovestory Posted at 9:11 PM 0 comments (+)

I have this short service from hougang. This couple is Eurasian, they're mixed of a caucasian and Asian race. Uncle is our patient, he have Parkinson disease and dementia that's why rowel and I assigned to him because previously he had a bad temper and aggressive episode. But when we met him our expectations are different to what he was. He's quite good, he smiled at us and we're very happy since uncle is nicer than what we expect.

They live together with one cat named keliko. Auntie is still working as office clerk. I like her because we witnessed how she loved uncle and I found out that she was a second wife since uncle was divorced before and he got 4 children for his first wife.  Sadly auntie doesn't have an own child with uncle. I asked her why she need to work since uncle has childrens that can support for what they need or at least give them for their expenses. Auntie answered me, their child can give but not most  of the time because they have their own family also, that's why auntie still needs to work and she mentioned her plan after 3years if she's going to retire, maybe she's going to sell their flat and buy new small one and then if time comes that they both weak and need more assistance, they are willing to submit their selves on a nursing homes together. Spend their remaining time together is such a companionate way for a couple.

I see how auntie commits herself for uncle and that was an endless love that I want to experience also.  Find someone who's willing to spend and commit her life with me.

Napaka-fullfilling ng pakiramdam pag alam mong may taong nag hihintay sa iyo, mag mamahal, pag aalaga at makakasama habang buhay.  Nagdadasal ako na sana makita ko na sya. Parang ang hopeless ko sa part na ito hahahaha pero alam ko hindi ako nag iisa sa ganitong wish. 


Napaka swerte ko sa mag-asawang ito. napaka bait ni auntie, si uncle naman kahit may dementia na sya napaka bait pa rin nya. sana pag tumanda ako makahanap ako ng katulad ni auntie na mag aalaga sa akin, yung walang hanggang pag mamahal. ito ung lovestory na gusto ko kahit wala na ako maalala, mag isip bata man ako, eh mamahalin pa rin nya ako hindi nya ako iiwan kahit ano pa man ang mangyari at magbago. sana dumating na yun. minsan napapagod na din ako mag hintay umasa kung kanino man. alam mo yung feeling na umaasa ka sa mga taong di naman dapat asahan kasi no choice ako. 

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